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After years of dating without a connection, Rachel Machacek vowed to try a more dedicated, less slipshod, more scientific way of finding love. So, she committed a year of her life to trying every mainstream (and not-so-mainstream) method of meeting the right guy. After years of dating without a connection, Rachel Machacek vowed to try a more dedicated, less slipshod, more scientific way of finding love.
We were so hopeful when we got this one in the mail.
This was in no way a scientific study, and in every way a chance for the author to make some money writing about her dating life. I know the dating scene is hard, and I have a lot of respect for people who are willing to put themselves out there and meet and date lots of new people - but I just wanted to keep hugging her and telling her that it's okay to be alone, too, and to wait until the right person comes along, and that it doesn't have to be so hard, and that I think the more you want to be in a relationship the less attractive you are because your goal is about finding someone and not about growing as a person.
I don't know..I can say is I've had my fill of self-absorbed reality books (which, might I add, are just as popular as reality tv shows these days) for a good long while.
She seems to spend inordinate amounts of time worrying about how they dress, who pays for what, whether to kiss or hug, and continually focusing on trivial matters like do her prospective paramours know the ingredients in ceviche. Of course, what this drive-by dating diary fails to acknowledge is that dating and ultimately mating is not merely about chemistry and sexual compatibility (which she hardly even gets to here) but that a true journey towards compatibility involves many deeper issues, feelings, backgrounds and emotions that the author either fails to understand or prefers to endlessly gloss over in her desultory quest for Mr. By the end, it is apparent that most of Machacek’s problem with dating is Machacek herself.
For some reason, Machacek, who admits she was not much of a dater prior to the book (it shows), is expecting one of these dates to ‘light her fire’; to exhibit all the exciting qualities that she is looking for in her mythical man.